​Volume 1,  No. 1

ROMANCE SCAMS

Dear Friends,

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In today’s world, connecting online is a wonderful way to meet new people and stay in touch with loved ones. However, it’s also important to stay vigilant and protect us from scammers targeting older adults with so-called “romance scams.” These individuals pose as romantic interests, aiming to gain trust and ultimately money through deceit. Here’s how to spot the warning signs and keep your heart and finances safe.

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                                             DON'T BECOME A VICTIM!

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Know the Signs of a Romance Scam

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Quickly Expressed Affection: Scammers often shower their targets with compliments and promises of love early on. If someone you just met online starts talking about a future together or calls you their soulmate, it could be a red flag.

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Avoiding Face-to-Face Contact: If your new “friend” makes excuses not to meet in person or on a video call, they might be hiding something. Many scammers will say they live far away or have a job that prevents them from visiting.

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Asking for Money: This is the biggest giveaway. Common reasons include needing funds for a family emergency, medical bills, or travel expenses to see you. If someone starts asking for money, it’s best to step back.

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Protect Your Personal Information

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Be Careful About Sharing Details: Avoid giving out personal or financial information, even if the conversation feels friendly. Scammers use details like your birthday, address, and other personal facts to gain your trust and manipulate you.

 

Keep Communication Public: If you’re just getting to know someone, keep the conversations on reputable platforms. Don’t move too quickly to private email or chat, where messages are harder to trace if something goes wrong.

 

Check for Consistency

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Ask Questions: Romance scammers often have elaborate stories but may struggle with details. Asking specific questions about their background and life can sometimes reveal inconsistencies in their story.

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Watch for Strange Language: Some scammers may use unusual wording or make frequent spelling mistakes. They might not be who they say they are if their language seems off.

 

Take Your Time and Trust Your Instincts

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Scammers Use Emotional Tactics: Purpose is to rush people into making decisions. Take your time to get to know someone new, and if anything doesn’t feel right, trust your gut and disengage.

 

Report Suspicious Activity

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If You Suspect Someone is a Scammer: Report their profile to the platform you’re using and inform a trusted friend or family member. You can also file a report with the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) at ftc.gov to help protect others.

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Stay Connected, Stay Safe!

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While it’s wonderful to make connections online: staying cautious helps ensure that our online relationships are based on honesty and trust. Remember, true friends and genuine connections are patient, open, and happy to meet on your terms.

 

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If you have any questions or concerns about online safety, don’t hesitate to reach out to a friend or local organization for guidance.

 

Regards:

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The Senior Power Team

K2 Kirstein & Kushnir, L.L.C.